This chapter again reads like a series of proverbs, containing much wisdom and practical guidance.
“Guard your steps when you go to the house of God. To draw near to listen is better than to offer the sacrifice of fools, for they do not know that they are doing evil. Be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God, for God is in heaven and you are on earth. Therefore let your words be few. For a dream comes with much business, and a fool’s voice with many words.” (v1-3)
There are many proverbs (and other passages) about holding our tongues. A common fallacy in this world is underestimating the power of words. When God created the heavens and the earth, He did so by speaking. The mouth can bless and curse, heal and kill, set free and bind. Words have nearly limitless potential for both good and evil.
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” (Pro 18:21) “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Pro 15:1) ” ‘I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.’ ” (Mt 12:36-37) Those are merely a few of the many verses on the power of words – if you want another powerful perspective, read the book of James, he has pure contempt for foolish words.
Unfortunately, I often catch myself speaking without thinking it through. It’s so incredibly easy to say the first thing that comes to mind. This can sometimes be a good thing, but is often regrettable. Maybe you have a similar experience.
I encourage us to pray for discernment and patience when using words. It is far better to remain silent (or not send that text), than to use words foolishly. Speaking from experience, I suggest taking time to cool down if emotions are hijacking us, or meditate on scripture and prayer when we lack the appropriate words. There is no shame in telling someone “I’m not sure how to respond to that, please give me a moment”, and there is great wisdom in seeking the Spirit’s guidance in such matters. My prayer is we learn how to slow down, wisely formulate our words, and discern if it’s simply best to remain silent in the moment.
Father God, our Wise and Discerning Lord, we humbly ask for forgiveness for our foolish words. Many times we have said/written things that have hurt people, including ourselves. May we learn to rely on the Spirit for wisdom and discernment as to what we should or should not say. May we fully rely on Your guidance, and remain calm in the face of temptation to behave rashly. May we slow down, and seek to be more like Jesus, who always said the right thing at the right time. In His holy name we praise You, amen.
~ Conqueror in Training